A self proclaimed teacher, guru, master, etc using terms like "conscious venting" does so because they are separating themselves from you. What they are saying is their venting is good, acceptable, loving, conscious...and yours is not...
They may even be so bold as to accuse you of blaming, whining, criticizing, bitching, call you a heartless battle ax, accuse you of being unloving, judgmental, "wanting to fight," uncaring and even go so far as to say that you've always been "this way" because you aren't "doing the work" and you never have...so you should just go kill yourself because you're so stupid you will just never get it.
They are always right about everything and you are always wrong.
Folks, this is gaslighting 101.
If YOU are human, there is something wrong with you, but when THEY do it, they are showing you the only way, the "holy" way, the "god-approved" way...the only things you are allowed to talk about, the only people or situations you are allowed to be hurt by or Angry with....ultimately getting you to doubt yourself and take on the shaming they have implanted you or attacked you with.
If you disagree with them, or just plain weren't even asking for their unsolicited "advice" or corrections, they now accuse you of attacking them...because you "want to be right, rather than loved."
They are projecting on you even though they will accuse you of doing the projecting simply by telling them no, setting boundaries for yourself, etc...
Don't fall for it!
They will tell you how wrong you are and "have always been about everything" in your life, but they are just trying to "help you because they want to be loved." Lol
No, (sarcasm) they aren't abusing, shaming, gaslighting you...they are just trying to "love" you...and "you're so wrong you're just incapable of loving anyone"
Folks, these subtle mind traps are going on all around you! What's good for them is not good for you and you will know about it! And be punished for stepping out of line!
They will blur the lines between right and wrong, good and evil and try to get you to think there is no wrong...of course that's a handy tool when they are doing wrong by you!
So they use nlp and subtly get you to curb your own instincts...because "you know, ego is bad"...and what this does is get you to retard/subdue your own built in, god given instincts alerting you to the danger you are under!
The only people that would ever try to convince you there is no difference is the ones capable of doing wrong/evil. They will say things like, "the belief in evil is relative to the level of your ignorance." So now they shame you again, get you to doubt yourself and put up with the abuse...blaming and hating yourself for not being able to get over the pains life sometimes throws.
To ignore that is to ignore life. To shame someone for being human is the ultimate tool of the dark side. Yes, there IS a dark side. And they have convinced you to love it as they are sucking the life force out of you!
Remember, parasites can ONLY feed off the good, clean, pure light filled non parasites! There is nothing to suck out of a fellow parasite. YOU are their food!
The next time they try to program you not to fellowship with other fellow hurting beings, consider that they might not want you to be with your tribe so you don't recognize these tactics, then find you under the spell, attack of the same harmful "teachings." And then it continues...
Be ware the "teachers" the ones that have all the answers while they cleverly avoid the questions that could point out who they are...
Be ware the "perfect people," the ones that never have a bad day, never experience normal human feelings like anger, sadness, grief...
Be ware the ones selling you "truth." They might share some truths like, "get real to heal" you must "feel to heal"...but then if you do anywhere around them, or even their facebook sphere, they freak out on you, then gaslight you some more and act like you attacked them...lol
They will tell you how little you are for feeling Suppressed pain, and how an evolved person wouldn't have to.
They will try to convince you to meditate it all away, and that complacency, willful ignorance is going to save the world.
Folks, you already know organized religion has been used as a tool to control you...why would the new age religion be any different?
Yup... I'm sure you've seen these tactics. Don't be slow like me and ignore them for years...wondering if im being "judgmental" because judging is "wrong."
Yeah, well, I was right. I was right all along. My intuition was always right, but I doubted it as I was being inundated with the fake love and light, ascension ,spiritual mamby pamby, how to make good clones, luciferian teachings that have permeated every school of thought there is...
LOVE, REAL LOVE, REAL IMPERFECT LOVE,